I used to think to myself, “ I will finally feel like I am enough” when I... .
Become a wife
Become a mom
Become a VP
Make 6 figures
Go to college
Drive a fancy car
Buy all the clothes I want
Travel to rad places
Weigh 120 pounds
Have alllll the things
Have alllll the friends .
I thought I will finally be enough and I can love myself. I will be accepted so then I can accept myself. I will have proven that I am enough and deserve to be happy. .
I had this idea that once I was “perfect” I could be worthy of love for myself. I though, I will love myself, like really love myself and be SO insanely happy once I achieve all these goals. .
Girlllll was I wrong or was I wrong! Can I get an AMEN! .
What I found was I was worthy of love the whole time. I just had to let myself finally believe the best in me. I had to do the inner work to love me and see that being perfectly imperfect makes me the perfect me. I realized if I wasn’t happy on the inside. If I didn’t really love who I was on the inside. NO thing, NO one, NO money, NO goal, NOTHING on the outside was going to change the inside. .
Self love, happiness, self worth, radical self acceptance its all an inside job. When you truly learn to love you for you and accept all of you. You find you are and always have been 1000x ENOUGH.